What my couples say
LA&R Killeavy Castle Estate
Thank you for yesterday. It was just perfect and so beautiful. We loved every second and all our guests have said to us about how much they enjoyed it, I think we’ve converted quite a lot of people to humanist ceremonies! You were just wonderful! Thank you again, for everything.
A&D Leighinmohr House Hotel
Thank you for giving us such a beautiful ceremony on Sunday. It was definately my favorite part of the day and so many people commented on how amazing the humanist wedding was.
D&A Beech Hill Country House
It was perfect, exactly what we wanted. We had many guests sending compliments your way. Lots of our guests hadn't been to a humanist wedding before and they commented that loved the personal nature of it. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!
A&C Lough Erne Resort
Thanks again for everything in the lead up to the wedding and the service itself. I can't tell you how many comments got from people saying it was the most personal ceremony they'd ever attended. That's a testament to the level of care and detail you have. It's exactly what we wanted
E&B Kilmore Country House
What an amazing day. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for such a personal and thoughtful service. Everyone told us how moved they were. Even family & friends who are religious said it was one of the best services they had been to.
C&L Drenagh House
Thank you for our very special day. We can't tell you how much we both loved the whole day and not to mention a lot of our guests were full of praise for you. Even though we had the ceremony script beforehand, your delivery of it on the day is what made it memorable. The ceremony was without doubt my favourite part of the day so thank you for being so easy and lovely to work with.
R&C Clandeboye Lodge
Just wanted to let you know how super grateful C and I are for your effort and hard work in making our day so special. The feedback was incredible from our guests. In particular my Father, and I quote, "that's exactly how all weddings should be done"
I&C Charlemont Arms
Trevor made our wedding even more special. He was so professional with the preparations, and on the day. He tailored everything perfectly for us. Our guests were extremely impressed and he made them all feel so welcome. We highly recommend Trevor, he was absolutely perfect.
S&P Feedback on their script
WOW - we absolutely loved our script! We were both surprised by how emotional we were while reading it. It’s perfect and is exactly the ceremony we want.
V&A Feedback on their script
The script is absolutely wonderful and it hits completely the right tone we were looking for thank you. When you sent it I read it twice and cried twice from how beautiful the words are! It will be so wonderful to have such a personalised ceremony and we can't wait for the day now already. You have made the process so easy and your words will share such a personal insight to us as a couple to our guests
M&D Antrim Boat Club
Trevor was recommended to us when we were beginning to plan our wedding day, and what a recommendation that turned out to be. Trevor made planning the official part of the day simple - he got to know us and put together an amazing ceremony. When I read the first draft, I cried - it was just so emotional and personal. On the day, it all just flowed and seemed so natural - it was everything we wanted, and more.
J&J Merchant Hotel
We would just like to say a huge thank you for performing our humanist wedding ceremony on Thursday.
The ceremony and indeed the whole day exceeded what we had hoped for, and everyone commented what a happy, joyous day it was, which is exactly what we had wanted. You made everything run smoothly and stress-free for us, and put us both at our ease which really made the day.
G&J Rabbit Hotel
Trevor really elevated our wedding ceremony to another level. Before realising we could have a humanist ceremony we assumed a luck of the draw registrar and ceremony that ticked the boxes without being particularly personal was the only option. What we got with Trevor was someone who took the time to get to know us, what made our relationship tick and then weave all that information together into a fun, humorous and thoroughly outstanding part of our day. The process was simple and fun as he tried to get to know us, he led us through what to expect and gave us advice and guidance on areas we were unsure of. The result was outstanding.
I don’t have the words to express just how good his ceremony was and how happy we both are that we found Trevor and booked him for our wedding.
V&T Feedback on their script
I am so glad I got to read it before the wedding because if I was hearing this for the first time I would be a blubbering mess! It is absolutely, wonderful and we are 100000% thrilled with it! Thank you so much, you are truly gifted at what you do
M&J Finn Lough Resort
Thanks so much for the wedding ceremony this last weekend - it was fantastic and thanks again for all the work you did! We really appreciate all the preparation, and the flawless and wonderful delivery of the ceremony for our day. We had an amazing day that felt joyful, calm and was a real celebration in all senses.
C&M Drenagh House Estate
Thank you so much for marrying us on Friday. We have had so many comments from family and friends saying that the ceremony was amazing; so relaxed, personal with plenty of laughs. Thank you for all your help and advice in creating a beautiful script and the most amazing memory for us both.
R&B Dunadry Hotel
Trevor absolutely made our wedding day, all our guests have commented on the ceremony being the best they have ever been too. Even our dog enjoyed it so much he celebrated with a woof. Personal, emotional, enjoyable and funny, Trevor did it all. His script was perfect from the first time we saw it we didn't need to change a thing. The ring warming was a lovely way to involve our guests. He did a rehearsal with us the day before which really put us at ease and made the build up even better. He worked seamlessly with the venue and our pianist Alyson (as well as our dog!), to give us the most beautiful ceremony. Thank you Trevor, we will remember our wedding day and vows for a lifetime thanks to you.
C&P Corr's Corner Hotel
Trevor I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for our wedding service on Saturday. It was beyond my dreams and everything was just perfect. We had so many beautiful comments about our humanist wedding and no one had seen anything like it before. People were moved to tears with how personal it was. It was our pleasure to have you as our celebrant.
K&D Titanic Hotel
My husband and I would like to say an amazing and huge thank you for marrying us yesterday. It was an absolutely beautiful service, it couldn’t have been more beautiful and I saw many tears in many eyes. The only topic of conversation last night amongst our guests was how personal the ceremony was, it really took them by surprise.
C&C Culloden Estate and Spa
Trevor officiated our wedding this month, and we couldn't be happier with how it went! He took on board exactly what we wanted and made our wedding ceremony fun, personal and something we will always remember! All of our guests thought it was great, and a refreshing change to the standard fare! Thanks again Trevor!
Some recent responses from my couples after reading the first draft of their script....
(Groom) hasn’t read his yet but I’ve read mine and honestly, I laughed so much! I love it! It is so personal to us and it’s perfect.
It’s beautiful! I cried the whole time reading it so I’ll have to read it 100 times more so I can get it out of my system (hopefully). A few tears might be ok but I’m a mess atm!
Thanks very much for the script, its pretty much perfect! Actually it is perfect. We love it, it says a lot about us as a couple - incredibly socially awkward when it comes to speaking about anything in public!
The script is beautiful I cried just reading it don’t know how I’m actually going to say the vows!
I absolutely 100% cried reading through this and J laughed at me! It’s so well balanced between love and humour which is perfect for us!!!
It's fantastic and more than we ever expected, we absolutely love it!
T&N Clandeboye Lodge
We had a great experience with Trevor. He made planning our ceremony so stress free as he helped us with everything. He got to know exactly the style we wanted and made our ceremony really personal. So many people commented afterwards on how great the ceremony was. Would definitely recommend Trevor for anyone wanting a humanist ceremony!
Trevor is absolutely excellent! 100% recommend him for humanist wedding. Trevor was incredible and made our day so special. None of our guests had been to a humanist ceremony before and absolutely loved it. The hand fasting and ring warming was so perfect. The wedding ceremony was extremely personal, all thanks to Trevor's excellent ability to take the time to listen and learn all about his couples. We can't thank him enough!
N&P The Rabbit Hotel, Templepatrick
We can’t begin to articulate how amazing our ceremony was! Trevor was absolutely amazing from start to finish, we live in Liverpool so that coupled with the pandemic limited our meetings/conversations to zooms and emails and it didn’t matter a bit. Trevor took the time to get to know us and understand what we wanted for the day. As a blended family it was very important to us that our children felt included and instrumental and that they did! People are still messaging us to say how they’ve never been to a wedding ceremony like it and how much they loved it! Thank you so so much Trevor, you’ve gave us a perfect start to married life! Mr and Mrs R xxx
D&B The Ghost House, Galgorm Resort and Spa
I cannot thank Trevor enough for our wonderful ceremony. It was personalised to us and he told our story so beautifully with the perfect mixture of humour and emotion. It was everything we could have asked for and more. Our friends and family have all said it was one of the best ceremonies they have ever been to and we have to agree with them. I wish we could do it all over again.
L&D Orange Tree House
The day Trevor made us Husband and Wife!
Trevor is an absolute gentleman, due to Covid, we had our planning meetings over zoom, Trevor made everything very relaxed and easy, as soon as we'd chatted about how we wanted our day to go, what our ideas were for the ceremony, he got us completely, he created the first draft of our ceremony script and we didn't change a thing! It was perfect, in just a few short meetings, he understood the importance of fun, laughter and humour for us, and he included just the right balance of this in our ceremony, along with some fantastic surprises!
When I saw him in person for the first time at the top of the aisle, his warm smile calmed my nerves and I felt like I'd known him forever, his professionalism was superb, the whole ceremony was conducted perfectly, all of our guests commented on how wonderful they thought it was, especially those who had never experienced a humanist ceremony before!
I would not hesitate to recommend Trevor to anyone thinking of a humanist wedding, it was so personal and special to us and a day we will never forget!
G&E Larchfield Estate
Because we got married during a period of COVID Lockdown, the ceremony felt very different, but Trevor was fantastic and created a very personalised experience for us. He was also a great help with suggestions for Zoom!
H&C The Rocks, Downpatrick
We had the most magical evening for our ceremony.
Our celebrant Trevor made sure to make our ceremony so personal to us even when we were only having a simple service. An aspect that was commented by all the guests.
M&S Titanic Hotel
Having never met Trevor until we arrived in Belfast two days before our wedding we felt so comfortable and assured that he was the right celebrant for us. He made us feel at ease over all the zoom calls and we felt he really got to know us, which showed on the day and in his script. Trevor spends time getting to know you as a couple as well as your family and your life.
The ceremony was light hearted, funny and filled with a lot of love which is what we wanted. We couldn't thank Trevor enough for making us husband and wife. It was the perfect day to begin our new chapter, and I am certain if Bruce (our dog) was allowed to attend he would have been a fan of Trevor as he sat in all of our zoom calls!
If you are looking for a celebrant who wants to understand your relationship and deliver a services which if funny yet so filled with love (and also have the best bow tie collection) then I couldn't recommend Trevor enough.
J&D Private Garden Wedding
What can I say about Trevor? He is brilliant!
From the moment of our first meeting on Zoom he was courteous, kind and was genuinely interested in what we had to say. For the next couple of weeks he was terrific at tailoring our script. He had an instant understanding of the story we were trying to tell and he did so with a mixture of humour, sentiment and insight. He captured our journey together better than we could possibly have hoped.
Not only this but he also went above and beyond what we expected when he resolved issues out of our control, and basically saved the day!
He also showed he was the epitome of a truly good person when he found out the special circumstances behind why we wanted to get our wedding planned so quickly. He was humble and beyond generous.
We received nothing but compliments from the guests that attended the ceremony. Saying it was heartfelt, emotional and told our story eloquently and beautifully. People were still talking about it days later.
I cannot recommend Trevor highly enough, an absolute credit to the humanist organisation and as a caring, considerate person.